Finding a good balance between work and play
For many of us the saying ‘So much to do and so little time’ rings all too true. Fitting everything required of us into...
Why Do Women Stay?
We often find ourselves asking, "Why do women stay in abusive relationships?" or "Why don't they leave?" These types of questions -  whether it's intentional...
When a Friend Stabs You In The Back
A few years ago I found myself in a situation where a "close friend" sent a message to my phone that was meant for...
Aleph Surf International: Changing lives through faith, community and creativity..
Rehgert Van Zyl is the founder and president of Aleph Surf International and he has a desire to serve his nation and people through...
If not me, then who?
I was pondering this question while washing the dishes this morning.
And the answer in that moment was Valerie. My wife. If I don't do...
Husbands, What Do Your Wives Expect From You?
Being a husband can be a very daunting task.  With so many responsibilities and so many things to remember - how will we ever get...
Insecurity – The Friendship Killer
Insecurity defined as:
Uncertain, anxious about oneself, lack of confidence.
Today we find ourselves living in a world, where we can easily lose our identity and...
Othering: Getting to know the ‘Other’
Blessed are the 'Others'.
Have you ever been in a conversation when suddenly someone whips out the phrase 'those people' and it suddenly feels like a...
Adapting to Change
We meet people in our journey of life and, sometimes, someone who starts off as a stranger ends up becoming your closest friend . You create...
A Husband Is Not a Financial Plan
Growing up I heard one central message – I had to get married, and more importantly, I had to marry someone who could take...