Learner Parenting 101
This week my child turned two. Since meeting her 730 days ago, she has set about trying to teach me some Big Lessons. It's...
Online Dating – it’s too easy
It’s too darn easy. Swipe left, swipe right; meh, don’t like his hair. Don’t like her teeth.
“I’m not into rugby guys.”
“I’m not into...
Living my best life!
I recently turned 21 years old and since then I have been living my best life. Now, I know when you get older people...
BIG UP to my African Brother!
We often speak about absent fathers, men who have abandoned their roles as fathers to their families and more importantly the role of fathers...
How To Get Unstuck
We all feel stuck at some point in our lives. This often happens when we stop listening to ourselves, most especially our spirits. Simple...
We All Have The Freedom Of Choice
Bill Cosby admitted under oath that he got a sort of sedative for the purpose of giving the drug to young women with whom...
How To Get Rid of Insecurity, Doubt and Comparison
How To Get Rid of Insecurity, Doubt and Comparison
I am not sure if you have ever been in a situation where you are nervous...
Life After Loss
Our neighbour’s cat went missing last night. I heard the whole family calling out for Camo long after I’d gone to bed. I didn’t...
The truth about marriage
In my early twenties I had anxious thoughts towards marriage. It stemmed from the fear of having a failed marriage. This was due to...
Aleph Surf International: Changing lives through faith, community and creativity..
Rehgert Van Zyl is the founder and president of Aleph Surf International and he has a desire to serve his nation and people through...











