Are your friendships toxic?
Without us realizing it at times, we find ourselves in unhealthy toxic friendships. Sometimes, these unhealthy friendships take us by surprise, or catch us...
Othering: Getting to know the ‘Other’
Blessed are the 'Others'.
Have you ever been in a conversation when suddenly someone whips out the phrase 'those people' and it suddenly feels like a...
How A Cow Can Change Your Life
I bet you're thinking "how on earth can I take lessons from a cow, and how could a cow possibly change my life?"  Let me...
Fall In Love Or Walk In Love?
Whenever you sit down to watch a movie, be it an obvious romantic, or a futuristic sci-fi; somewhere in the plot you'll discover at...
5 Helpful Ways To Be a Good Friend During Tragedy
Recently two good friends of mine were hit by tragedy.
One of them lost his mom. The other one is watching her husband struggle with...
Street Light
This is a poem about the internal  battles we face as human beings.
Street light so bright, you provide me with the spot light….
You bring...
3 ways to get more engaged
How engaged are you with the burning issues that are facing your country?
My home country, South Africa, is well into its young adulthood in...
Why I Don’t Trust My Spouse
In our day and age, infidelity in marriages is everywhere. I think you would search far and wide to find a family who hasn't...
The lost art of sticking it out
Nowadays, we are so quick to give up when things get tough. We are so quick to throw in the towel when it gets...
The Us vs Them in marriage conflict
Conflict in marriage can be hard.
It can be super great too. And typically people will tend to paint a picture of just one of...