Are you too selfish?
It's all around us, isn't it? This blaring message everywhere we turn that it's all about us; it's all about what we want, what we need and where we...
Can The Abuser Change?
Very often, we focus on survivors of violence and abuse. However, no one ever thinks of what happens to the perpetrators except for the fact that they go to jail.
Do...
Stop asking for easy
I recently saw a post online that said we should stop asking for easy. It intrigued me because 2016 was a particularly challenging year for me.
Here is an excerpt of...
LIFE’S TOO SHORT
Every life experience is an opportunity for us to learn something from it. Recently my dad was taken up in hospital with severe pain due to a back injury...
Before You Get Married
Before someone gets a driver's license, they take a drivers ed course, practice with the help of an experienced driver, and closely study the rule book. These are all...
The Hills Tell A Story
The hills tell a story
A tale of what was
When rivers ran shallow
And everyone loved
But winds and floods grafted
Down to the deep
Separating the highs,
Making the struggle steep
So people built castles
To stay...
Just do it!
I know we are only in March, but I think it would be safe to say that many of us have settled into our routine for the year and...
A New Year’s Evolution?
Next year I will...
In 2016 I will stop...
From this moment I promise I'm going to be more...
Fill in the gaps right? And being New Year's Resolutions, they have as...
When you feel like you’re on the outside looking in
Sometimes we go through seasons where we feel like we aren't quite connecting with others. Maybe we feel unnoticed, or a bit invisible and disconnected. Often, we then retract...
Women and Relationships: The Inside Scoop For Guys
The issue of legacy is an important thing for the African male. So it makes sense that relationships would be high on his agenda. Very often I get relationship...