Being twenty-something is exciting. You are at the ideal age to go explore, discover and invent. There are so many different things to do, so many different people to meet and so many opportunities for you to grow and develop yourself in. Each of us are different in the things we like to do and the places we like to go. And being twenty-something is the perfect age for you to venture into the unknown and explore the world around you.
Here are 8 things that you should really do in your 20s:
Volunteer your time
Start a soup kitchen once a month and do something for other people. You do not need money or material things to help others. All you need is time, your own two hands and a heart for helping.
Be silent for a minute
It is in the silence where you discover and acknowledge your inner thoughts. This is important for reflection to help you connect the dots when moving forward.
Give up fear
Once a month, overcome one fear. One thing that scares you. Do it! If it means forgiving someone who hurt you, conquering your fear of heights or speaking in front of a large group of people, whatever it is, don’t let your fear define you.
Write yourself a letter
Once a month, write a letter addressed to yourself and store it away. Store as much as you can while you’re 20 and when you’re older give it a read and see how much you have grown.
Allow the struggle to happen
The struggle is real – let it be! You cannot fully learn from the struggle if you do not endure it. Its like the Drake song says: Started from the bottom now we here.
Forgive people
He who does not forgive harbours hate. When you forgive the people who have hurt you, you allow yourself to move forward and then you leave your 20s fresh and free of any baggage that may be weighing you down.
Love your parents
Just as you are getting older, so are your parents. Cherish all that they have done for you and keep loving them even as they age.
Say ‘thank-you’
There are many people in your life who you should be grateful for, many people will move up the ladder with you as you get older. Maybe, once a month, send them a shout out (a thank you) and let them know you appreciate them for sticking around.
So here is to being 20. Living, learning and growing.