Are you alone for Christmas?
Christmas can be one of the most joy-filled days of the year, but truth is, for some it is also one of the hardest days to get through. I think it is important to stay mindful of everyone in our world over this season. Some friends may seem perfectly fine, however inside they are dreading this season. Take a moment to check in with those in your world, see if they have people to spend Christmas Eve or Christmas day with. If you are one of those that are alone for Christmas maybe it’s time to try something new and fun?
I can’t imagine the feeling of having no one to spend this day with, maybe not so much because it’s a special day, or because of the gifts, but more because it is hard to know “everyone” else is with people they love, having a great time and here you are, alone. I looked into some awesome things to do and listed them below – I hope they help make this festive season all it ought to be.
- Adopt an orphanage – There are many orphanages that could do with help in making the day special or alternatively have children that haven’t been selected for an “outing day”. You could be that super cool person that picks them up and takes them on a Christmas adventure.
- Visit an old age home – This is another one that is in desperate need of some help. Believe it or not, there are countless older folk that don’t have family to visit them throughout the year, let alone on Christmas. You would have the opportunity to make their year!
- Host a Party! This one could be scary as one often entertains the thought “what if no one comes” – But I think it’s the perfect opportunity to FIND those who are also alone, and to make some new and awesome friendships. If you don’t have a home to fit friends in, you could go to a restaurant or picnic in the park.
- Solo Mission – this one can be amazing! Plan a day that is all about YOU. Book a massage, go for a drive, watch a movie, journal at an amazing view spot, go on a hike, the options are many!
- Go to church – there are some wonderful churches that host some very special Christmas Day services. Two great options are: Hillsong Church or Common Ground Church. (Both with multiple campus options to choose from)
- Take a few homeless people for lunch! (This might be for those who are a little more daring) Can you imagine the excitement and joy you could unexpectantly bring into their world? PS: Be wise about being alone, safety first!
Christmas Day or this whole festive season for that matter, doesn’t need to be a lonely one. For those of us who struggle with the day due to past memories that bring back pain, know that you are loved and the pain won’t overcome you. There are people who would love to help you through this season. If you would like to find out more about God or maybe about getting some help in moving forward, please click on the link below.